Meditation Techniques

The Benefits of Meditation and Mindfulness for Youth Mental Health

Meditation and mindfulness have become increasingly recognized as effective tools for enhancing mental health, particularly among youth. These practices offer a range of benefits that can help young people navigate the complexities of adolescence, manage stress, and build resilience.

Below are several guided meditation exercises designed for youth workers to use with the young people they support. These exercises aim to address different situations and promote a sense of peace, belonging, and emotional balance.

By integrating these meditation practices into their routines, youth can cultivate a sense of peace, develop coping mechanisms for stress, and foster a deeper connection to themselves and the world around them. This holistic approach to mental well-being can support their growth into emotionally balanced and resilient individuals.

Why Meditation and Mindfulness matter for Youth:

1. Stress Reduction:
The constant barrage of crises—from pandemics to climate emergencies—has led to heightened stress levels among youth. Meditation and mindfulness can help alleviate this by calming the mind and body, reducing the physiological effects of chronic stress. This makes it easier for young people to cope with the overwhelming challenges they face daily.

2. Emotional Regulation:
Anxiety and depression are increasingly common among youth grappling with economic instability, social upheaval, and global conflicts. Mindfulness teaches young people to observe their thoughts and emotions without immediate reaction, fostering greater emotional control. This can be particularly beneficial in managing intense emotions linked to these complex issues.

3. Enhanced Focus:
With the proliferation of distressing news and the pressures of a volatile world, maintaining focus can be difficult for today’s youth. Meditation improves concentration and attention span, enabling them to remain engaged in their academic and personal pursuits despite external distractions and uncertainties.

4. Increased Self-Awareness:
Mindfulness encourages self-reflection, helping youth to gain insights into their thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. This self-awareness is crucial in developing healthier coping mechanisms and making informed decisions amidst the confusion and unpredictability of current global challenges.

5. Improved Relationships:
The strain from societal issues can take a toll on personal relationships. Meditation fosters empathy and compassion, allowing young people to build stronger connections with others. This sense of community and belonging can provide emotional support and a buffer against the isolation often felt in today’s fragmented world.

What is Meditation and Why Should I practice it?

Below are several guided meditation exercises designed for youth workers to use with the young people they support. These exercises aim to address different situations and promote a sense of peace, belonging, and emotional balance.

By integrating these meditation practices into their routines, youth can cultivate a sense of peace, develop coping mechanisms for stress, and foster a deeper connection to themselves and the world around them. This holistic approach to mental well-being can support their growth into emotionally balanced and resilient individuals.

3 Meditations with numbers

The secret of peace is simplicity. There is something simple and clean about numbers and, when you meditate on them they help you become simple and clean also. 

  1. As you inhale think the number “one”. As you exhale think the number “two”. The numbers are clean, simple and uncomplicated. The principle that “you become what you focus on” means that, as you focus on the numbers, you also  become clean, simple, and uncomplicated. Enjoy  the experience of feeling simple. (You can also try just meditating on the number “one”, just on the exhale. See which one you like more)
  2. Meditate on the number  “zero”. Zero problems, zero objects, zero distractions, zero ego. An empty mind. Does that bring a sense of freedom and release?
  3. As you inhale count from 1 to 4. As you exhale count from 5 to 10. Linking the breath with counting synchronises the body and mind.
Meditations on the Senses

Close your eyes and:

  • Smell: 
    • meditate on the smell of a rose
    • or the smell of your favourite herbal tea.
  • Taste: 
    • meditate on the taste of chocolate,
    • the taste of pineapple
  • Sight: 
    • meditate on the universe full of stars,
    • meditate on light, 
    • meditate on different colours that please you. 
  • Touch: 
    • meditate on the warmth of the sun on your body,
    • the touch of a cool breeze, 
    • the water that surrounds you when you dive into the ocean.
  • Sound:
    • meditate on the distant sound of tiny bells
    • or the sound of “Om” (don’t make any sound with your voice, just imagine the sound in your mind). 
    • Concentrate on hearing. Try to listen to the sounds around you without analyzing or identifying them. Just listen. 

These exercises take you out of your head and put you in touch with different forms of awareness. They give an object of concentration with is soothing for the mind and not analytical.

A meditation on colour

It is helpful to have a clear understanding of what exactly  we are trying to do when we do meditation. Basically, we are trying to do four things: “simplify, beautify, magnify, identify”. 

  • “Simplify” means we are thinking of only one thing nothing else.  simplicity is the key to peace. 
  • “Beautify” means that the one thing we are thinking of should be something beautiful, for example love or god. 
  • “Magnify” means we are trying to expand the idea that we are thinking about from small to big, from finite to infinite (for example: infinite love, absolute happiness, eternal peace, etc). 
  • “Identify”: If we can exclude all other thoughts from the mind and concentrate completely on one thing, that complete concentration will give us the experience of identity,  the experience of oneness. We become what we focus on. 

Sometimes this can be difficult to grasp when we are trying to do it with some abstract idea like love. So in the below meditation we will use a strong color as our  object of meditation. Once we have been able to achieve the goal of “simplify, beautify, magnify, identify” using a  strong color then hopefully it will be easier to  do the same process with a more abstract feeling like love.

  • Concentrate in your chakra point;
  • Imagine your chakra point totally and completely surrounded by a color that you like, for example pink.
  • Imagine total pink, inside, outside, everywhere, filling up all available space, past,  present and future.
  • There is only pink nothing else. No you or me,  no he, she or it, just  pink
  • Hold this visualization and repeat the word “pink” with your breath
  • Feel yourself becoming that color. Feel that you are that color.
  • (if you don’t like pink use some other color that you like)
  • How does it make you feel? Does it make you feel strong? Do you get the feeling of consistency and simplicity? Could you feel identified with the color? Is it a pleasant feeling?
Absolute Chocolate Cake
  • Imagine absolute chocolate cake
  • Inside, outside, everywhere, forever

We want to achieve a state where the mind is balanced and still. As long as the mind is running after something or avoiding something it will have no balance. If the thing we are seeking (e.g. chocolate cake) exists everywhere permanently then the mind will become still because it doesn’t need to move in any direction – it is already absolute chocolate cake. After you can do it with absolute chocolate cake try it with something more abstract like love, light, God.

Observe your thoughts and feelings
  • Observe the flow of your own thoughts and feelings;
  • Allow them to be present without judging them, resisting them or getting caught up in them.
  • Ask yourself, “Who is thinking?”  “Who is feeling?”
  • Realize that thoughts and feelings come and go and that you are not your thoughts and feelings. 
  • Think about all the thoughts and feelings that have come and gone in your life.
  • You were there before they came and you are still there after they have gone. This will continue on forever. You are the awareness that is witnessing these thoughts and feelings coming and going.
  • Imagine that thoughts and feelings are like clouds moving across the sky. They appear for awhile and then they are gone. But the sky remains. The sky is the witness in you, holding the space, eternally.
Self-Acceptance 1

Sometimes we are overwhelmed with powerful feelings and emotions which we don’t want to have. If we suppress them or ignore them they build up steam and come back stronger. Psychologists have observed that the physiological lifespan of an emotion in the body and brain is 90 seconds. If you leave it alone, if you just sit with it,  be with it, accept the fact that it is there and give it permission to be there without resistance then it will naturally dissipate by itself.

  •  Sit still
  •  Look inside and see whatever is there
  •  Just sit with it, allowing it to be present without resistance 
  •  Once it has dissipated continue with your desired form of meditation
  •  Or just get up and continue with whatever you were doing 

By practicing this regularly you can learn to accept your feelings and, at the same time, not let them define you. This is a healthy basis for self-transformation.

Self-Acceptance 2

We are all at certain points in our journey and that’s beautiful. We have made some improvements and there are still things we need to improve and that makes it both rewarding and challenging. In order to move forward we have to accept both the need to change and the reality of where we are. But there is a major difference between acknowledging the need for change and constant self-criticism. The first one helps you move forward the second one pushes you backward. The following meditation focuses on acknowledging the need for change while focusing on the positive factors that can help you move forward. 

  • After doing something you are not happy with repeat to yourself,

I may be weak, 

I may be confused 

But God is still God, 

And I still love Him/Her

  • The first two lines accept your weakness without blaming
  • The second two lines take your attention away from your faults and focus on the resources that can help you keep moving forward – the eternal presence of a higher power which is infinitely capable and always willing to help you, no matter how bad a mistake you have made
  • And the love you have for your higher power which is also always present and can help you make progress if you focus on it. 
  • The second two lines help to bring a feeling of hope and confidence that the situation can improve and that both you and the universe are fundamentally good.
Self-Acceptance 3

While negative feelings about oneself are damaging it is also not healthy to deny or suppress them. We need to find a way of both acknowledging our feelings and healing the pain. Yoga teaches that there is a higher power that has unconditional love for everyone, no matter what mistake you have committed. This higher power not only loves you unconditionally it will always support your efforts to go forward in a better direction. Here is a helpful meditation/affirmation that allows you to experience the unconditional love from your higher power and through that learn to accept and love yourself, the necessary precondition for positive transformation. 

  • Think of some negative name you use to blame or criticize yourself, e.g. “Idiot”
  • Then recall that the higher power has unconditional love for all
  • Using that knowledge remind yourself, “God loves idiots” (or whatever word you are calling yourself)
  • Draw comfort from this and by this beautiful example learn to accept and love yourself
  • Then, out of love and gratitude towards your higher power, renew your efforts to improve.
Integrate your other half

Do you believe in re-incarnation? Could you have been the opposite gender in your past life? Perhaps the spirit is neither masculine nor feminine.

  • If you are a boy, imagine that you are a girl.
  • If you are a girl, imagine that you are  a boy.
  • Does that have any impact on your desire for the missing opposite?
  • Imagine that you are everything, complete and total.

We only long for that which we think we don’t have. If we can find what we are looking for within ourselves then our need will be reduced.  The mind makes no distinction between what it experiences through the senses and what it experiences through the imagination.  This is because what comes through the senses is recreated in the mind and gets translated into imagination. Then only can we experience it. Ultimately everything is imagination.

Meditations on the virtues

You can grow and develop all qualities simply by focusing on them. As well as meditating regularly on the qualities you want to develop remember that quality (or those qualities) as often as you can during the day. Keep coming back to that thought. Write out the list and look at it often.  Make it into a checklist that you review every day. Then observe if those qualities start to get stronger in you. 

  •  Choose one of the positive qualities below. Meditate on it by repeating the word with your breath.
  • Feel rather than analyze
    •  Forgiveness
    •  Gratitude 
    •  Kindness
    •  Courage
    •  Power
    •  Patience
    •  Determination
    •  Wisdom
    •  Simplicity
    •  Humility
    •  Purity
    •  Detachment
    •  Calmness
    •  Trust
    •  Generosity
    •  Discipline
    •  Strength
    •  Responsibility
    •  Integrity

 Cycle through the list on a regular basis  or make your own list.

Meditate on God in whatever form pleases you
  • Instead of asking god for things just try to develop a sense of connection by repeating his/her/its name with your breath. 
  • Choose any name that pleases you.
  • You can think of God as being formless or as having a beautiful form that you are  attracted to (as a divine figure or as divine light, for example)
  • If you imagine God with a form you can imagine God looking at you with love and inviting you to come closer with open arms.
  • If you imagine god without a form, you can imagine it as a loving presence that surrounds you and welcomes you, folding you into itself.
  • Allow your own feelings of love, gratitude, and a desire to give something in return, to develop naturally 
  • Hold on to this feeling as you repeat the divine name which you chose, offering your full attention.

The deeper the concentration and the longer you sustain it the stronger will be the feeling of connection.  (This is true for any form of meditation).

Creation in reverse
  • Concentrate in your heart chakra or third eye chakra. 
  • Visualize it as a small point of light.
  • Imagine that this point is the nucleus of whatever exists, including yourself.
  • Imagine that all creation emerges from this point.
  • Imagine creation in reverse. Imagine everything that was created returning back into the point from which it started, your chakra point.
  • Now there is nothing left except this point. No universe, no body, no ego. Just this point nothing else.
  • Now you are completely free.
  • Holding this idea and holding your focus on the point, remain in that state of freedom.
I am a mystery

Once someone asked a great master, “please write your biography for us”. The master replied,  “I can write my biography in three sentences”, “I was a mystery”, “I am a mystery”,  “and I will always be a mystery”. Celebrate the mystery in your own being. Celebrate the mystery in the vast universe around you.

  • Close your eyes and focus in your chakra point
  • use the chakra point to detach yourself from your body your history and your everyday world
  •  imagine that your chakra point is spirit, pure being without any definitions or limitations
  •  repeat the phrase “I am a mystery” to yourself in the rhythm of your breath
  •  feel the same mystery surrounding you and filling the universe and think, “the universe is a mystery “
  •  be  the whole mystery
  •  transition to a mantra later if you feel like it

Remember the phrase “I am a mystery” often during the day. And when you meet other people celebrate the mystery in them also and think to yourself “You are a mystery”. When you look around you contemplate, “the universe is a mystery”. What connects everything is mystery.

The Last Airbender Meditation (aimed at self-control)

Have a big chart of the chakras. Explain the location of each chakra and how the first five chakras are the controlling points for the five elements, how the sixth chakra is the controlling point for the mind, and how the seventh chakra is the seat of the Divine within the body and controls all the chakras below it.  Explain that your body is made of the five elements and that if you can bring those five elements under control your level of self-control will grow stronger. By focusing in each chakra and thinking of the element that it controls you can gain control of that element.

  •  Concentrate in the first chakra at the base of your spine. Contemplate that it is the controlling point for the Earth element. Repeat the word, “Earth” with your breath until you feel your mind is steady.
  •  Concentrate in the second chakra at the root of the genital organ. Contemplate that it is the controlling point for the water element. Repeat the word, “water” with your breath until you feel your mind is steady.
  •  Concentrate in the third chakra on the level of your navel. Contemplate that it is the controlling point for the fire element. Repeat the word, “fire” with your breath until you feel your mind is steady.
  •  Concentrate in the fourth chakra in the centre of your chest. Contemplated that it is the controlling point for the air element. Repeat the word, “Air” with your breath until you feel your mind is steady.
  •  Concentrate in the fifth chakra at the vocal chords. Contemplate that it is the controlling point for the element of ether (space). Repeat the word “Ether” with your breath until you feel your mind is steady.
  •  Concentrate in the sixth chakra just above the nose between your eyebrows. Contemplate that is the controlling point of the Self. Repeat the word, “I” with your breath until you feel your mind is steady.
  •  Concentrate in the Crown chakra. Contemplate that it is the seat of the Divine which is imagining and controlling everything. Repeat the word, “God” with your breath until you feel your mind is steady.
You are not alone

Feel you are being witnessed by the Divine which surrounds you like a great ocean of love and light

  • Imagine that Divine Ocean holding you within itself and repeating the words, “I see you”. 
  • Repeat this phrase with your breath, feeling the Divine affirming your existence, your importance and that you belong to the whole.
  • Imagine the Divine in every atom of your body and mind, in every atom of the universe, repeating, “I see you”… Affirming your existence, your importance and that you belong to the  whole.
  • ​​ After some time you may no longer need to repeat the words “I see you”. Just feel your self being witnessed, being affirmed, and being part of the whole.
  •  From a place of gratitude, repeat the word “God” with your breath.
I am imagination

Imagination is fluid, spontaneous, adaptable – only limited by what it dares to imagine.  Whatever we experience – dream, memory or reality – we experience through our imagination.  The millions of things that you are experiencing now are all in your imagination. Instead of identifying with the objects of your imagination, identify with imagination itself.  And if you’re going to imagine something, imagine  Infinity, eternity, totality.

  • Let go of identifying with your body and personality
  • Instead identify with your imagination
  • Repeat “I am” as you breathe in, “imagination” as you breathe out
  • Maintain this for some minutes and observe what feelings arise
  • Imagine the universe. Be the universe. 
  • Imagine happiness. Be happiness. 
  • Imagine the Buddha. Be the Buddha
  • Imagine anything. Be anything.
  • Imagine everything. Be everything.
  • Imagine forever. Be forever.
  • Remember that whatever you experience is your imagination
  • Return to repeating “I am imagination” with your breath.
Recovery After a fall

We are all struggling with our own complexes  and weaknesses. Sometimes we succeed sometimes we fail. You can’t grow without failing. One of the most important things after a failure is learning how to pick yourself up again, how to recover. “Do the next right thing” and “think the next right thought”  are helpful guides for getting back on track. They get you moving forward in small doable steps mentally and physically. As a meditator you might focus on saying your mantra or thinking of the Divine instead of beating yourself up. Forget the past which weighs you down, forget the future which may seem overwhelming, and concentrate on what you can do with your next breath. Some helpful affirmations are:

  •  Baba Nam Kevalam  (only love everywhere)
  •  God loves idiots (or whatever other name you have been labeling yourself with)
  •  I am light
  •  Shame is also God (if everything is God Then every thought feeling or emotion is also god. Remembering this helps to transform the negative feeling just by looking at it at a deeper level). Anger, fear  or any negative emotion can also be dealt with in the same way.
A Sufi Story

To succeed in meditation you need a daring imagination.  You need to be able to imagine things that you never imagined before. You need to challenge your old ideas and your limiting assumptions about yourself and the world.  There is an old Sufi story about a crazy Mullah (priest)  called Nasrudin. Nasrudin lived in a small village by a lake. One day one of the people who lived in the village was taking a walk around the lake. When he came to the opposite side of the lake, there he found Nasrudin holding a giant wooden spoon and stirring the lake. Taken by surprise,  he said to Nasrudin, “Nasrudin, what on earth are you doing?” Nasrudin replied, “I am making yoghurt”.  His friend said, “Nasrudin, you can’t make yoghurt in a lake”. Nasrudin  replied, “I know that. But….. Imagine if you could!!!”

Some Inspiring Quotes
  • “Wisdom tells me I am nothing. Love tells me I am everything. Between these two my life moves.” Swami Nisargadatta.
  • “The most important decision a person has to make is whether they believe the universe is friendly or unfriendly. If they believe the universe is friendly, they will spend their life building bridges. If they believe the universe is unfriendly, they will spend their life building walls.” Albert Einstein
  • “You are never alone or helpless. The force that guides the stars guides you too.” Shrii Shrii Anandamurti
Teach what you feel to be true from your own experience

If you feel excited about the experience you get from any of the above meditations then share that excitement with others by teaching them how they can do it themselves. Don’t try to teach the techniques that don’t work for you. Keep practicing them until they do work for you. Then only are you ready to teach them.

MEDITATION MUSIC

Here are some videos featuring one of our esteemed trainers, a senior monk with over 40 years of experience in teaching meditation. In these videos, he shares valuable insights on depression and anxiety from an Eastern perspective, drawing on his extensive experience and deep understanding of traditional practices.